Gabrielle Union's dad, Sylvester Union Jr., has died at age 81
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He was placed in memory care in 2023, years after being diagnosed with dementia
"No matter how much you think you know about dementia, nothing prepares you for the painfully slow disappearing of your loved one," Gabrielle wrote in an Instagram tribute
Gabrielle Union's dad, Sylvester "Cully" Union Jr., has died. He was 81.
Sylvester died on Friday, April 3, according to the actress in a heartfeltInstagram tribute. Her father wasplaced in memory care in 2023, years after he was diagnosed with dementia.
"No matter how much you think you know about dementia, nothing prepares you for the painfully slow disappearing of your loved one," Gabrielle, 53, wrote. "First it's repeating words or forgetting little things here or there, then BOOM, he can't swallow or walk."
"The them that you know gets smaller and smaller," she continued. "You hold out hope for sustained eye contact or a smile; even a hand squeeze can make you feel like they could come back to you 'normal' at any second. It's brutal and it's what he experienced, but it wasn't who he was."
TheBring It OnandRiff Raffstar remembered her dad as someone "surrounded by love and support from his ever-growing village."
"I swear he never met a stranger, just friends he hadn't met yet. A lifelong, die-hard Nebraska fan, he taught me the values of teamwork, a fierce work ethic, and that you are only as strong as your weakest link, so tend to them first," she wrote.
Gabrielle also said Sylvester "was a perfectly imperfect man and father," adding that he "acknowledged his imperfections, apologized, and made amends for as long as it took for the hurts to heal."
"No one was ever left behind or unseen," she wrote.
TheForbidden Fruitsstar recalled her dad being the "life of every party," writing, "He loved music, traveling the world, and spending time with extended family and friends."
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"I am grateful for all who stepped up in his final years to care, nurture, and love on him. My family and I are eternally grateful for the medical and memory care staff who ensured he had the best care. My sisters who stepped up are heroes, and I love you both beyond words," the actress said.
"It's bewildering to feel relief that the pain has ended, but profound heartbreak at the finality of his time. I know I'm not the first or last Daddy's girl to go through this, and I'm sending love and healing to anyone suffering the loss of a parent. I know his love is eternal and will find me in every realm," Gabrielle concluded.
The Instagram post featured a compilation video that included clips of Sylvester singing into a microphone during a meal and at a football game, as well as an array of family pictures.
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ActressAja Naomi Kingexpressed her condolences in the comments section, writing, "Sending you so much love," while comedianRobin Thedewrote, "May he dance in heaven always!"
JournalistKelley Carterwrote, "Your dad was always so incredibly kind. Sending you and your sisters all of my love. Here for you always."
In October, Gabrielle shared an Instagram carousel of photosin honor of her dad's 81st birthday, writing, "It's my Dad's 81st birthday and I don't think I've ever been more grateful to be his daughter."
The photos showed family members — including her husband,Dwyane Wade, and her sister,Tracy Union— gathered around her father as he rested in a chair underneath a Nebraska Cornhuskers blanket.
Gabrille previously shared that her dad's medical care has influenced her career choices, explaining, "You know, nursing homes, what's covered by insurance, what's not, home health aids — like that all adds up and having to really be cognizant of an additional output, I have to go where the money goes."
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